I believe that

is our birthright.

pleasure

Welcome

Hi, I'm Lesley.

I provide modern

    
with connection and vitality at heart.

I provide modern


with connection and vitality at heart.

sex education

I am launching my full website in phases, taking the time to let my story evolve, and moving as fast as my slowest part.

I am launching my full website in phases, taking the time to let my story evolve, and moving as fast as my slowest part.

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introducing the

4D Pleasure Model

Gently and delightfully explore practical, modern
sex education that prioritizes pleasure and safe experiential learning

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Crafted with care and intention, this handmade textile model of pelvic anatomy is an invitation to explore, understand, and connect with the body in a deeply human way. Designed to provide an experiential approach to sex education, this soft and interactive model encourages learning through touch, fostering curiosity, respect, and empowerment.

introducing Dr. saida désilets'

introducing
Dr. saida désilets'

Jade Egg Mastery

Gently and delightfully experience sexual awakening with the only physician-approved jade egg training

Gently and delightfully experience sexual awakening with the only physician-approved
jade egg training

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This course changed my life.

I truly believe that pleasure is our birthright.

It creates an unshakable bond with our loved ones.

it ignites and focuses our life force.

it fine tunes our instincts and gives our voices strength.

It teaches us that our greatest source of pain can become our greatest source of power.

Join my community of women and dedicated parents to prioritize sensuality, confidence, and embodied psychosexual wellbeing.

If you're feeling anxious about connecting with your body, I can offer you these promises:

I won't see you as broken, only powerful. My job is to help you stay out of your story. We get clear on where you want to go, where you are now and the steps that can help you find your way. My training involves an in-depth understanding of guiding premises, a creative process, a roadmap for transforming emotions, a conflict process, a reparenting technique, plus movement, meditation and breathing techniques to get clients into their bodies.  

We will only go as fast as your slowest part. And sometimes, you will override that slow part only to find yourself out of balance again. That is cause for celebration because that’s how you will find your way. 

Even though so much of this training is about sensuality and rediscovering ourselves as sexual beings, I can’t remember ever talking to my teacher, Dr. Saida Désilets about how I "do" sex; either with myself or in relationship.

I understand now that the main focus of this training is intimacy, which may or may not include sex. Life provides enough scenarios full of emotions to unravel. In order to grow erotically, our emotional capacity needs to expand to hold this energy. Exploring erotic sensation naturally exposes our most tender emotional wounds.

For these reasons, it’s crucial to lean into embodiment and attunement, and that's what I'm here to help you do.

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In the second pandemic winter, I experienced profound changes that were interfering with my functioning as a health care worker, mother and spouse. The one thing that has, in retrospect, made the most impact for me was studying the Jade Egg Essentials with Lesley Joiner.

Because of the [course work] and group sessions provided by Lesley, I was able to awaken "extra energy", enough to initiate a self-care plan to feel strong and capable again, and get back on track with emotional self-regulation, intentionally making space for fun and pleasure.

 Lesley's lived experience, education and absolute passion for this critical work clearly inspire her to provide a unique and immensely empowering client experience.

NOT ONCE DID I FEEL ANY JUDGMENT.
[Lesley] helped to show me how to redefine crude, narrow, and conservative terms and definitions with a different perspective that harnesses a kinder, more meaningful insight to taboo topics that carry an unjust societal shame.

In the beginning, I bounced plenty of questions around the topic of sex and relationships, both inside and outside of the bedroom. Not once did I feel any unwillingness to share, as Lesley creates such a safe and warm space for learning and healing.