Jade Egg Essentials

When I was introduced to Dr. Saida Désilets’ practices, I was exhausted, uninspired, and mostly shut down. I woke every morning dragging myself out of bed, moving through the day with no spark.

The heaviness in my body showed up as abdominal pain, tension in my family, and emotional eating that left me feeling broken and disconnected. Even my arousal was gone. My marriage felt strained. I didn’t know what it meant to be responsible for my own experience of pleasure—or that choosing something different could actually fuel my creativity, joy, and confidence.

When I finally committed to learning more about this egg that seemed to be part of some tiny changes, I couldn’t even answer the question:

What do you love?

But something began to shift. Even though my practice was inconsistent, I noticed changes—more clarity, less compulsive eating, more energy, combined with the ability to handle the tough times.

Two weeks into a committed practice, I realized: generating pleasure in the body is a skill and I can choose it—one that can be learned through gentle attention and embodied curiosity. That realization changed everything.

Since then, I’ve spent years training in the Embodied PsychoSexual Method, not to “fix” myself but to understand how wholeness naturally returns when we reconnect with all of ourselves.

Now, I help other women remember this truth:

There was never anything wrong with you. There’s nothing to fix—only to remember.

Introducing Jade Egg Essentials

A 14-Day Introduction to Jade Egg Wisdom

I discovered this course after completing Jade Egg Mastery—and I was hooked!

Created by Dr. Saida Désilets, Jade Egg Essentials offers the foundational teachings of the Jade Egg practice in a gentle, guided 14-day format—perfect if you’re curious but unsure where to begin.

Why Essentials Is the Perfect Starting Point

  • It’s approachable. You’ll learn the fundamentals—safety, preparation, and embodied connection—without overwhelm.
  • It’s empowering. The transformation doesn’t come from the egg itself; it comes from you choosing to connect with your body in a new way. In fact, you don’t ever need to use the egg.
  • It’s practical. You’ll create daily rituals that bring awareness and vitality into your life, one gentle practice at a time.
  • It’s foundational. Whether you continue exploring or simply enjoy the benefits, these 14 days give you everything you need to explore safely and meaningfully.

You’ll receive guidance emails from me at your own pace, instructional videos, and simple practices that teach you how to prepare, connect with, and safely use your Jade Egg while cultivating deeper love and trust in your body.It’s a solid, self-paced introduction—not another thing to master, but a way to begin exploring on your own terms. 

What You’ll Experience

Women who begin this practice often notice:

  • Increased energy, confidence, and self-trust
  • More natural lubrication and sensation
  • Emotional balance and quicker recovery from stress
  • A stronger voice—literally and metaphorically
  • Greater capacity for pleasure and presence

You may also notice subtle shifts: feeling grounded, more creative, and more at ease in your skin. 

What’s Included

Daily emails with inspiration, guidance, and links to short practice videos

A Jade Egg (included with purchase)

E-Version of Jade Egg Essentials which includes access to the first four chapters of Emergence of the Sensual Woman by Dr. Saida Désilets

Integration and rest days with reading and contemplation to support your nervous system

One private session with me included

Lifetime access to video resources to revisit anytime you need a reset

All for $400 CAD.

You may also choose to add a private mentorship package with me—six one-hour sessions for individualized guidance and deeper embodiment. This option can be purchased separately anytime you’re ready to go further.

A Gentle Reminder

There’s nothing mystical or magical about the Jade Egg itself.


The real magic happens when you choose to listen, breathe, and feel again.
The egg simply gives your body a focus—a way to remember your capacity for pleasure, strength, and self-love.

Begin Your Journey

If you’re longing to feel more alive, grounded, and sensually confident, this is your invitation. Click here to explore Jade Egg Essential with me.

You don’t need to be fixed—you just need to go as fast as your slowest part.

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I help parents reconnect with their own pleasure, creativity, and Erotic Genius so they can model wholeness for their kids and live with more aliveness, ease, and joy.

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This course changed my life.

I truly believe that pleasure is our birthright.

It creates unshakable connection.

It fuels creativity.

It sharpens instincts.

It strengthens our voice.

It turns pain into power.

Join my community of dedicated women, men, and parents to prioritize creativity, sensuality, and embodied wellbeing.

In a world that constantly pushes us toward numbness or productivity, choosing to prioritize pleasure is radical because it opens new possibilities for how we live, love, make, and relate. 

Pleasure isn’t frivolous. It’s the compass for meaning and aliveness.

If you’ve been feeling disconnected from your body and unsure about how to feel more like yourself again, start here. You don’t have to be fixed. You just have to come home.

Redefining pleasure as ease or a regulated nervous system or whatever word feels right to you is a powerful beginning. When we are regulated, we are more able to know not just what we don’t want but what we do want.

Tracking pleasure is essential and when you get to know how to pay attention to sensation, it points us toward our deeper YES and equally important our NO.

My work weaves together creative practice and embodied education. Whether we’re exploring the 4D Pleasure Anatomy Model, stitching inner knowing into fabric, or moving together in breath and presence, my desire is to help you feel more connected, capable, and alive.

If you're anxious about reconnecting with your body, I can offer you these promises:

I won’t see you as broken, only powerful. We will only go as fast as your slowest part.

Together, we will explore the creative process, where we acknowledge where you’ve been, where your heart longs to go, and what steps can help you find your way.

But most importantly, I walk this path alongside you. I trust in what becomes possible when you get curious and choose what makes you feel alive.

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In the second pandemic winter, I experienced profound changes that were interfering with my functioning as a health care worker, mother and spouse. The one thing that has, in retrospect, made the most impact for me was studying the Jade Egg Essentials with Lesley Joiner.

Because of the [course work] and group sessions provided by Lesley, I was able to awaken "extra energy", enough to initiate a self-care plan to feel strong and capable again, and get back on track with emotional self-regulation, intentionally making space for fun and pleasure.

 Lesley's lived experience, education and absolute passion for this critical work clearly inspire her to provide a unique and immensely empowering client experience.

NOT ONCE DID I FEEL ANY JUDGMENT.
[Lesley] helped to show me how to redefine crude, narrow, and conservative terms and definitions with a different perspective that harnesses a kinder, more meaningful insight to taboo topics that carry an unjust societal shame.

In the beginning, I bounced plenty of questions around the topic of sex and relationships, both inside and outside of the bedroom. Not once did I feel any unwillingness to share, as Lesley creates such a safe and warm space for learning and healing.