Quilt-Making as Movement and Healing

Making is movement. Taking time to make something creates space for intention and contemplation. When what you make is soft, warm, colourful, and memorable, it becomes a daily reminder of what truly matters.

It doesn’t have to be complicated. Maybe it’s the only time in your life you ever use a sewing machine or maybe you discover an activity that brings ease and joy.Nancy’s quilt-making journey began with a referral from a friend who said, “I heard that Lesley does something like quilt therapy, maybe you could give that a try!” And so the making began one stitch, one breath, one decision at a time.

Beginning the Journey

Quilting together
One stitch at a time
Emotions and memories expressed

Nancy had never made a quilt before, but she said YES to creating. Our first step was a trip to the fabric store, where she chose colours and prints with meaning. We decided on a cozy size that would be perfect for curling up with a book.

The inspiration began
With some overwhelming emotions
Deep within my soul

There is a desire to be Whole
To be One
To be together again

Learning to Sew

When Nancy learned to sew her first square, we began with a log cabin design. I love teaching this style!  It flows with ease, each strip building outward like the layers of a life.

There must be a way
A symbolic way
Something to hold the memories

Something that will bring comfort
Something that will be unique
Something that will be private and powerfully significant

Flow and Stuckness

As the quilt grew, so did the reflections. There were moments of flow and moments of stuckness. We paused to notice how quilting mirrored life: sometimes expansive, sometimes uncertain.

The sewing flows
And stops
Life feels stuck

With illness
Responsibility
And pressure

How to be in flow when one feels stuck?
With recognition of
And permission to feel

Sewing Meaning into Fabric

When it came time to join the quilt layers, Nancy chose words to be sewn into the fabric. These became her mantra, stitched like prayers: Revere, Memories, Purpose, Wisdom, Beloved, Compassion, Ease, and Soul.

Beginnings of the healing are tangible
The memories are flowing
There is a life-death-life cycle

Emerging before our eyes
Is a heart and core connection
In the centre of my creation

Completion and Confidence

Our final session was by the fire on a chilly November morning. I taught Nancy a simple hand stitch, and she completed the last part of her quilt herself. Though many challenges in her life remained, her orientation had shifted. She carried new confidence and a tangible reminder of her own resilience.

Freedom abounds when choice is made
Affirming an experience of BEing in Flow
Brings one to claim it as Truth for self

This timeless quilt
Beautifully crafted by two
Becomes One

Namaste

Closing Reflection

Thank you, Nancy, for this moving testimonial of what quilt-making can hold: memory, healing, and the power of creation.

A quilt makes a perfect gift – either for yourself or another. One made with your own hands and loving intention means so much more. Is there someone in your life going through a hard time or a big life change who’d treasure a quilt?

I would love to chat and explore the possibilities of making with you. Click here to explore Making a Quilt with me.

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I'm lesley joiner.

I help parents reconnect with their own pleasure, creativity, and Erotic Genius so they can model wholeness for their kids and live with more aliveness, ease, and joy.

Through embodied workshops, creative sessions, and the 4D Pleasure Anatomy Model, I guide you back to the wisdom of your body, one slow, beautiful stitch at a time.

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In my quilting and weaving workshops, the PsychoSexual Embodiment method helps me guide participants gently into new experiences. As we work with textiles and color, I weave in simple, supportive practices—like breathwork and mindful awareness—to help everyone stay grounded and connected to their inner selves. This allows participants to explore their stories and dream into what they’d love to create in their lives while making something tangible with their hands. My solo sessions are similar and the results magnified. We’re able to go deeper and the end results can be profound.  

Whether we're discussing memories, navigating sensitive topics, or simply enjoying the act of creation, I hold space with compassion and respect for each person’s journey. My aim is to foster a nurturing environment where participants feel empowered to explore, share, and integrate what arises. With every project, we’re not only creating beautiful textiles but also cultivating a deeper sense of connection to ourselves and the life we’d like to create.

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Crafted with care and intention, this handmade textile model of pelvic anatomy is an invitation to explore, understand, and connect with the body in a deeply human way. Designed to provide an experiential approach to sex education, this soft and interactive model encourages learning through touch, fostering curiosity, respect, and empowerment.

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This course changed my life.

I truly believe that pleasure is our birthright.

It creates unshakable connection.

It fuels creativity.

It sharpens instincts.

It strengthens our voice.

It turns pain into power.

Join my community of dedicated women, men, and parents to prioritize creativity, sensuality, and embodied wellbeing.

In a world that constantly pushes us toward numbness or productivity, choosing to prioritize pleasure is radical because it opens new possibilities for how we live, love, make, and relate. 

Pleasure isn’t frivolous. It’s the compass for meaning and aliveness.

If you’ve been feeling disconnected from your body and unsure about how to feel more like yourself again, start here. You don’t have to be fixed. You just have to come home.

Redefining pleasure as ease or a regulated nervous system or whatever word feels right to you is a powerful beginning. When we are regulated, we are more able to know not just what we don’t want but what we do want.

Tracking pleasure is essential and when you get to know how to pay attention to sensation, it points us toward our deeper YES and equally important our NO.

My work weaves together creative practice and embodied education. Whether we’re exploring the 4D Pleasure Anatomy Model, stitching inner knowing into fabric, or moving together in breath and presence, my desire is to help you feel more connected, capable, and alive.

If you're anxious about reconnecting with your body, I can offer you these promises:

I won’t see you as broken, only powerful. We will only go as fast as your slowest part.

Together, we will explore the creative process, where we acknowledge where you’ve been, where your heart longs to go, and what steps can help you find your way.

But most importantly, I walk this path alongside you. I trust in what becomes possible when you get curious and choose what makes you feel alive.

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In the second pandemic winter, I experienced profound changes that were interfering with my functioning as a health care worker, mother and spouse. The one thing that has, in retrospect, made the most impact for me was studying the Jade Egg Essentials with Lesley Joiner.

Because of the [course work] and group sessions provided by Lesley, I was able to awaken "extra energy", enough to initiate a self-care plan to feel strong and capable again, and get back on track with emotional self-regulation, intentionally making space for fun and pleasure.

 Lesley's lived experience, education and absolute passion for this critical work clearly inspire her to provide a unique and immensely empowering client experience.

NOT ONCE DID I FEEL ANY JUDGMENT.
[Lesley] helped to show me how to redefine crude, narrow, and conservative terms and definitions with a different perspective that harnesses a kinder, more meaningful insight to taboo topics that carry an unjust societal shame.

In the beginning, I bounced plenty of questions around the topic of sex and relationships, both inside and outside of the bedroom. Not once did I feel any unwillingness to share, as Lesley creates such a safe and warm space for learning and healing.